Is what you have a real relationship or just an emotionship?

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They say at times that, it is hard for men to keep girlfriends who are just friends. Just as a certain relationship speaker said, “For a man, a plutonic girlfriend is a woman who, he either have not yet slept with or tried to but something went wrong somewhere”. As a woman, being in such a relationship, have you ever wondered what usually runs through that man’s head whenever you cross his mind?

Men are secretive about their intentions for a while even if they realize the plutonic friendship is a time bomb for a potential romantic relationship. Whether you are in a real relationship or a plutonic one there are certain feelings attached to it. These will determine whether what you have is a real relationship or just an emotionship.

The best method to know how a man feels about you and his real intentions is to find out his response when he gets the news bomb that you have just been married. I will not go to the details on how you can do it as a woman and make it look like it is serious. Women are blessed with creativity just make use of it, you can send your friend or do it yourself. The most important part will be the responses that the man will give when caught up in that moment. Below are the categories of the responses and their interpretations.

  1. Okay

When a man goes like okay, when he gets the news bomb that you have just been married, it can mean a lot. However, we can break down into two basic interpretations. He might be having some feelings but saw that coming, accepted and move on. On the flip side, it can also mean that you are a complete stranger in his romance life. You might be very beneficial and mutual friends but an ok can also draws a clear wedge line of what you have is just friends.

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  1. What? That is impossible

After getting that you should be going like `oh my gosh he really loves me` or folding your grips tight with excitement. This means that the guy actually have real feelings for you and wants to keep you to himself since she sees the potential in you. These are the Alihandro types that can even stop the wedding when the priest goes `if anyone has objections why these two should not get married step forward`. Keep your hopes and game up, you can be the one.

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  1. Thank God, finally                    

This can mean two things. Literally, it means you are either a thorn in their life or a bother who keep stalking his romantic peace. From the bottom of my heart, I am sorry if you get this. The best antidote is not to feel sorry for yourself and find out where you went wrong, but to just accept the fact and move on. However, not too fast, it can also mean that you were like his dear sister, who he wished that you be happily married to someone else but not him. In both cases, you do not appear in his romantic picture for a very long time, usually forever

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